On Death
June 21, 2018
Posted on August 9, 2013 by Martenson Family of Funeral Homes
“On the day when death will knock at thy door
What wilt thou offer him?
I will set before my guest the full vessel of my life.
I will never let him go with empty hands…”
Rabindranath Tagore
Death is feared by many but death is a part of life that we all have to embrace at some point. We do not know when death will come and we do fear that day. Death is not something to be feared if we have lived a full life.
In moments of loss, what families often remember most are the stories — the small, vivid details that made their loved one unmistakably *themselves*.
Being close to your loved one is important
Grief has a way of reshaping life.
For your consideration
At times we all struggle with what to say when a loved one, a friend or acquaintance has just lost someone to death. We find we often struggle with the right words to say, often times we over think what we should say and we may decide to say nothing at all. At times just being present to the person can make a huge difference or one may say, “I don’t know what to say, but I am here for you.”
Grief is a deeply personal journey, and when someone we care about is hurting, it’s natural to want to help
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Personalized Merchandise
: Offering personalized merchandise can provide attendees with keepsakes that remind them of their loved one. Custom printed memorial bookmarks, candles, or photo books featuring cherished moments can serve as lasting mementos. You could also consider unique items like custom jewelry containing a portion of the deceased's ashes or engraved with their handwriting.
Interactive Memory Stations
: Setting up stations where attendees can share their favorite memories or write messages can foster a sense of community and shared remembrance. You could provide a memory tree where guests can hang notes or photos, or a digital photo booth to capture heartfelt moments and messages during the service.
Unique Tributes
: Consider incorporating elements that reflect the individual’s hobbies or achievements. For an avid gardener, you might hand out packets of their favorite seeds or plant a memorial tree. For a sports enthusiast, displaying memorabilia and encouraging guests to wear team colors can create a sense of unity and celebration.
Digital Tributes
: Embracing technology can add a modern touch to traditional services. Live streaming the service allows distant friends and family to participate. Creating a tribute website or social media page where people can share stories, photos, and condolences helps keep the memory alive long after the service.
By thoughtfully incorporating these creative elements, you can craft a funeral service that truly honors the life and legacy of your loved one, providing solace and connection for all who attend.
